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Post by closetofchaos on Mar 15, 2017 18:01:54 GMT -5
I chose to though.
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Post by shellsncheese on Mar 17, 2017 10:51:05 GMT -5
closetofchaos Funny how things just work themselves out sometimes. Maybe she is sick or burnt out or who knows, but I'm so happy that you will be getting a fresh start with someone.
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Post by hedy on Mar 21, 2017 15:14:53 GMT -5
That is outrageous. How about just telling her - sweetly or not, but certainly politely - "this is not working"? Can't they send you another person? And YES - or rather, NO - you are not required to open your door to anyone. Sometimes when I was at home and somebody rang the doorbell but I was not in the mood of facing anyone (or didn't have the time), I even made a point of making a little ("unrushed") noise, like a step or two around, to make them see that a) yes, I AM at home, and b) no, I am not going to answer the door. Why? I am not required to explain why do I not open the door of MY home. So there.
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Post by closetofchaos on Mar 21, 2017 20:35:49 GMT -5
hedy The thing is, with that organization, NOTHING is easy. I have tried to communicate various times and run into the conclusion that these people aren't the most highly functional group of individuals. I don't feel listened to in general, and honestly, I am looking to get away from the whole place. I just need to find a new Dr. now so I can wash my hands of the place entirely.
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Post by closetofchaos on Mar 21, 2017 20:38:02 GMT -5
They always have some ridiculous answer for everything and it would work for someone who was lower functioning than I am I guess, and I think that's who they're used to dealing with.
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Post by closetofchaos on Mar 21, 2017 20:54:11 GMT -5
I would sum the place up with few exceptions of collective cluelessness.
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Post by closetofchaos on Mar 22, 2017 1:13:54 GMT -5
As a person who was raised with an ADD parent, who had a grandmother who grew up in the Great Depression and hoarded, and who has had considerable trauma and has overcome hoarding herself, I understand chaos and how destabilizing it can be to the mind. The irony is, these people were supposed to be helping me but some of their behaviors and mistakes that they make within their organization creates even more chaos in my life! Besides the medications, which seem to be helping now that I have the proper diagnosis, everything else that's entailed always seems to turn into some kind of hassle. Nothing is ever easy with them.
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Post by closetofchaos on Mar 22, 2017 1:19:02 GMT -5
hollyhock def6 I got a phone call today from that worker and I was baffled! I thought she was supposed to be gone! Maybe she means this coming Friday??? She wants to pick me up this Thursday to finish some project that is her fault that it's not finished. Meanwhile, I have a sinus infection! I was at the hospital the other day and getting medications. I'm on bedrest. Guess who isn't getting the door again?
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Post by closetofchaos on Mar 22, 2017 1:22:05 GMT -5
H2H shellsncheese Arid hedy She probably meant she isn't retiring until March 31st which is a Friday. I wouldn't be surprised if she shows up on my porch the next day saying April Fools!
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Post by closetofchaos on Mar 22, 2017 1:25:31 GMT -5
Meanwhile I don't want to see the lady ever again. I don't want to hear how pekid I look because I actually am sick this time. I know it's going to be an ordeal. She's going to try to reschedule, bug me, ect. Passive Resistance is the only thing I can do. I can't believe this is my life!
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Post by def6 on Mar 22, 2017 7:42:13 GMT -5
If she shows up again and by chance you see her...never mind...you are doing the right thing by not seeing this person!
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Post by closetofchaos on Mar 22, 2017 15:39:17 GMT -5
This has done nothing but reinforce by fear of asking for help and letting people into my life. My trust issues and overall cynicism have multiplied since being a part of the mental health system. This organization is only part of the problem.
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Post by closetofchaos on Mar 22, 2017 15:59:43 GMT -5
We are getting the most random precipitation right now, a hailstorm! I don't think I've seen hail here in as long as I can remember! I'm sitting here, enjoying it with my cats, thinking what a hassle it would be for that woman to try and bother me through a hailstorm tomorrow
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Post by closetofchaos on Mar 22, 2017 16:28:20 GMT -5
I hope it's at least rainstormy tomorrow at the time she'd try to come to force and fetch me def6 so her supervisor would just tell her not to. That would be less need of a battleplan for me.
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Post by closetofchaos on Mar 22, 2017 18:26:41 GMT -5
def6 H2H shellsncheese hedy hollyhock Arid So there's been a new development! About 2 hours ago, soon after the freak hailstorm, I got a phonecall from her begging me to be available tomorrow at home just to sign some papers at my home at 9:30am tomorrow, with her voice sounding very shaky and she said so that I can" continue treatment there." It sounded very official. What the heck?
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