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Post by TwinkleToes on Dec 30, 2019 7:05:24 GMT -5
Hoping I will remember to come back and add to this list today and tha I will stay motivated. I have so much to do.
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Post by cando on Jan 5, 2020 15:08:13 GMT -5
Jan. 5, 2019 Sunday Done: Meds to dogs Fed dogs Weighed: 157.6 lbs Dressed2shoes Had all my meds. Water: Folded/hung load of laundry Put away that load Moved load to dryer Made meal plans through Jan. 13th Made grocery list. Put laundry load in washer Put away hand-washed stuff from drainboard Unloaded dishwasher Washed 3 sinkfuls of dishes Moved laundry load to dryer Put another load in washer Emptied back bathroom trash & replaced bags Emptied my bedroom trash Emptied trash from DD's old room Emptied front bathroom trash & replaced bags Emptied office trash Emptied den trash Emptied kitchen trash & replaced bag Took 6 bags of trash to outside can & scooted out for pickup Took 3 bags of recyclable bottles/cans/jars in outside can & scooted out for pickup Took 1 bag of recyclable paper type trash to outside can Broke down 6 boxes Took 10 boxes to outside can DH asked me to pick up Puppy's RX at Krogers. I verified twice which location it was at...went there, but NO, it was the wrong location. grrr. Picked up mail from po box. Visited my Parents at The Cottages Went grocery shopping Put bag of bags in recycle bin at grocery store Put away groceries. Dieted Successfully. CD
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Post by cando on Jan 7, 2020 1:18:29 GMT -5
Jan 6, 2020 - Monday Weighed: 156.8 lbs Had all my meds Water: Went to work During lunch: Called DrBro to see if he looked thru his mail to find Dad's Medicare Part D renewal info. I'm sure we need to have paid it by now... He only went thru some of his mail, but didn't see it. After work, visited parents at The Cottages Cleaned out part my car. 1 bag of trash was bagged Put 9 papers & 1 sm box into recycle bag Tossed a sticker type label/receipt Folded load of laundry Put away that load Put another load in washer Researched my Dad's Medicare Part D plan Sent question re: Dad's plan. Sent email to DrBro & his wife re: Dad's plan (I am pretty ticked at them at the moment. They have been on a cruise, visiting a Giraffe in NY, and not been staying on top of their mail. They should have the important information that I need, but like me... I'm sure they are covered in paper piles & to tell me they don't know where their housekeeper put the mail... well, I am just mad...) I don't know what happens if we don't pay for his prescription insurance.. he was automatically re-enrolled, but I can't find anything about payment & don't want to call them... because they don't have my POA, yet, and we are getting ready to show he's moved here, but I don't have hours to spend on the phone this week contacting Social Security, Medicare, Dad's Prescription Ins., Mom's Prescription Ins (they have plans w/ different companies due to the drugs they're on), and their Medicare supplement plan. It will be like a snowball & we will have to change both of their Prescription Ins. plans. All of this will need to be done right away... aarrgghh.) Moved load to dryer.
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Post by cando on Jan 9, 2020 8:35:45 GMT -5
Jan 7, 2020 Tuesday
Ended up staying up until about 3am. Looked over Trust Tax return that DrBro sent me a couple months ago. He had told me that we didn’t need to do anything cause it didn’t gain anything & we didn’t owe any taxes on it. I had received it right after my Dad was home from the hospital in October. Whelp, I should have looked it over cause it has so much wrong on it!! How can he be so smart & not have read over what ever he was signing & okaying! It was glaringly obvious mistakes to me! And how could I have been so stupid not to have even looked it over too. I know, with me... I thought that I could rely on me. This was turned over for him to take over & handle. My DH have been overwhelmed with what all we’ve been doing for my parents. But still, shame on me., too. I’m still learning. Grrr. At 3am, I went to bed. DH had heard me exclaiming & going off. I had awoken him from the den. Ghah! He was so sweet & assured me it could be easily corrected. Just clerical type issues. The trust had been set up in the tax return completely wrong. Showed my dad as beneficiary & his ss#. Was called wrong type of trust. Did not issue documents for the correct beneficiaries. Other wrong information had been given, etc ad nauseum. Sweet understanding DH.!! Went to work. Phone call with DrBro. He had told me that he wasn’t going to use that accountant anymore. So, he was distressed too when I told him what all was wrong. He admitted that he did not look over that tax return & since same accountant did his personal tax return, he didn’t even know basic info about trust document that was submitted with his own personal tax return. So, He called new accountant & she said we don’t have to worry about the mistakes. The wording of the trust itself disputes what’s very wrong in the tax return & if the numbers are not right, it will be easily taken care of when she does the next return. Discussed dads Medicare part D he agreed to do the right things concerning that too. He ended up having to call the insurance company & paid some so that it would give us time to get new address & new policies for both parents set up. He also got the address changed to mine. Our original agreement was that he was going to help handle things since we were bringing parents here, but as you can see he is just piling more on our plates. I didn’t even mention it due to the stress he has caused me I just said ok. Grrrr.
After work, stressful time. Did I mention that Sunday night I was stopped due to registration was expired on my car? Well I was & it is another stressful situation. DH had told me that it won’t pass inspection since the light is on & I need an oil change. Also cause it needs brakes repaired. He has put all this off due to the expense & now since the year has changed. It’s a lot more noticeable. So he wanted me to meet him to get oil changed on both our vehicles but didn’t realize he had scheduled it at place far away & I was stressing to try to make it from work in all the traffic. Halfway he realized that it was going to be so close but a few minutes after their deadline for closing. And he had made a mistake by paying in advance with Groupon at place that nearly ruined his van last time he went there. He didn’t realize it until he was there & they were working on his car. Anyway, forgot to mention that originally since the light went on months ago, he was going to do all the auto work on both the cars himself, but during the day today, it didn’t work out. My chances are very high of getting a ticket. I got a written warning over the weekend.
So after the stress driving in terrible traffic from work, I stopped & bought some junk foods from CVS pharmacy. Sale on Christmas candy, etc. don’t ask. Blew my diet. Such an idiot! How does stress eating help?! Not at all just snowballs & makes my situation worse & then the guilt & everything else comes up.
After the stop & binge eating while driving, visited my parents. A good visit & was the highlight of my day. Remembered to give medications to Med tech. Then, home.
So, I did accomplish a few major things today. Looked over that tax return Contacted DrBro re: errrors Contacted DrBro & made him hold up to part of his agreement with me. Got dads Medicare part d taken care of. Small box into recycle bag Visited parents Got meds to med tech at The Cottages.
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Post by cando on Jan 9, 2020 9:29:00 GMT -5
Jan 8, 2020 Wednesday
After work, was going to go straight to the cottages, but DH called. He got caught up on a job, so needed me to feed dogs. Med to dogs Fed dogs Neighbor/friend needed some help. Basically needed a friend due to problems with her husband. He makes her feel so unworthy, she shared something really bad about him & some awful things about herself. I think when he treats her badly (she insists no physical. He is just “so mean”. ), he makes her feel like a stupid worthless person. And then the snowball effect of her remembering terrible behaviors/mistakes in her past. That have riddled her with guilt for many years. She suddenly shared those with me. She never told me those things about herself after all the years we’ve known each other. The last 5 years we’ve hardly really talked due to my working full time. And I know she has other friends, but she told me she’s never told anyone the awful thing she did before she married this guy. She’s been keeping it inside all these years except for telling her religious leader, & said that he had forgiven her. Etc. Anyway, 1st she agreed to go with me, somewhere, any where just to get her out of the house with him. Then she said she couldn’t after I went in to get my purse & coat, she said she couldn’t leave & that they weren’t speaking to each other. Then she agreed to go with me to meet my parents & be with as I visit my parents tomorrow night. Any way, DH arrived about that time & he had not eaten lunch or dinner so we went out. Binged during night. Why? H*ll if I know...destroying myself, I think.
Didn’t do one productive thing except work, today. Cd
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