Introducing! The one, the only, the KrazyKatLady! Jun 11, 2008 9:20:33 GMT -5 Quote Select PostDeselect PostLink to PostBack to Top Post by ramatama on Jun 11, 2008 9:20:33 GMT -5 wow! you are so YOUNG to be on your own and have to deal with the house and stuff like that! commendable!(sorry about your mum dying )you write you are not sure about being comfortable in your mother's bed...well i can understand that really well. Is the bed or the room also?Is the mattress still OK? would you feel awkward sleeping on just the mattress? Can you transform the room where your mother was and make it a cat haven? or better, an animal room? just throwing out ideas at you... As to where to start: some say whatever bothers you the very most when you first walk into your place.some say the bathroom, as it is the smallest place, easiest to get done.Some, like FlyLady, recommend the kitchen sink and making your bed.Others will say start with just bagging the junk and boxing the stuff you don't use.keep posting and someone here will cheer you on!