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Post by artsygal on May 20, 2008 18:42:30 GMT -5
Hello, I'm artsygal and joined a week ago when a dear friend found this site for me. I've always been "messy" but around 6 yrs. ago I have been a level 3 on and off. I have an extremely hard time with maintenance. Garbage is my number one foe. I am single, 36, and live alone with my 4 dogs , 2 cats, and 2 birds. I rent a 3 bedroom house, that has 8 rooms total, a full basement and a walk in attic. I'm a recovering alcoholic sober for 9 yrs with panic and depression issues. I'm on meds and see a therapist weekly. This is my first time really addressing my squalor issues. My brother passed away very unexpectedly 6 yrs ago that's when the squalor escalated. In my immediate family I have also lost my father and a sister. I have no immediate or extended family in the same state as me, not even within driving distance. I am very excited (but also scared) to participate within this group. I know from my AA experiences and grief groups how much sharing, talking and encouraging others with similar issues has been most helpful. I'm just a little frustrated to tackle yet another issue, but I know if I don't, I will not be living the wonderful life that I deserve, and will continue to use squalor as an excuse to keep people from getting too close. All the best to everyone, artsy  |
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Post by CrimsonKat on May 21, 2008 4:19:15 GMT -5
Welcome! As far as the history of the people here, I am fairly new too. I can relate to a lot of what you said. (I am familiar with AA, I use clutter to keep people away, dealt with depression and panic, and I am "artsy" too! What kind do you do?). I hope to hear more from you.  |
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Post by artsygal on May 21, 2008 13:05:03 GMT -5
Thanks Crismson! I majored in fine arts drawing and painting, I tend to dabble in all art forms. But mainly oil painting and photography. Here is a photo I took of my cat Wilber.  |
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Post by Minnibella on May 21, 2008 14:13:11 GMT -5
Artsygal, Welcome! We are so glad you are here. You are not alone in this. Gosh, what is Wibur doing?  He's a cutie!@!! |
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Post by artsygal on May 21, 2008 18:02:19 GMT -5
Thanks for the warm welcome, Wilbey is yawning, a big yawn! |
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Post by CrimsonKat on May 21, 2008 18:28:22 GMT -5
Cool pic, Artsy! We have something else in common! Since I am recently obsessed with photography lately, I take loads of photos of my 4 cats (and 1 dog). I love yawning pics! It makes them look crazy and cute. I'll have to post one too. |
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Post by eatingbonbons on May 24, 2008 15:49:33 GMT -5
Hello, Artsygal! I really like your photo of Wilber. 'Great texture details and I love how the whiskers are highlighted.
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