boodles
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May 2, 2009 22:29:47 GMT -5
Post by boodles on May 2, 2009 22:29:47 GMT -5
Hi, I'm not real sure what to say here. I know I have a problem and have had for about two years. I'm just not real sure what to do about it. I don't have insurance and I'm unemployed (but I'm a full time college student) so a psychologist is out. From the other site I'm about at a level two. I think there are several things that have come together to create this problem and it just makes me sick. I'm always stressed out. I keep setting goals and then not meeting them and then when I do get something clean it takes almost no time and it is just like it was before.
I'm at a loss and I don't know how to get help.
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May 2, 2009 22:43:04 GMT -5
Post by CourageouslyLion SeeksSerenity on May 2, 2009 22:43:04 GMT -5
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Welcome !!!!!!
We had a member on the former forums named Boodles.
(assuming you're a different person).
Good name. Glad you're here. Welcome boodles.
--- Lioness
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May 2, 2009 22:48:47 GMT -5
Post by CourageouslyLion SeeksSerenity on May 2, 2009 22:48:47 GMT -5
From the other site, I'm about at a level two.
I think there are several things that have come together to create this problem and it just makes me sick. I'm always stressed out.
I keep setting goals and then not meeting them and then when I do get something clean it takes almost no time and it is just like it was before.
I'm at a loss and I don't know how to get help. You said earlier that you don't have money for a psychologist. Some of us have them and some of us don't. Each of us is different. I don't know what's right for you. But ... you can read and learn a LOT here. We use all sorts of methods here. Each of us has our own way that works for us. Read, try things, and see what works for you. Sometimes making babystep progress on desqualoring does help one feel less stressed. -
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May 2, 2009 23:13:38 GMT -5
Post by Meme on May 2, 2009 23:13:38 GMT -5
welcome and I am so glad you stepped in- do not fuss about what you do not have at this moment or what you might need in the future - you have us in corner and it not so much why you have a problem but that you want to resolve the problem- and you the first step coming to us
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May 3, 2009 0:30:34 GMT -5
Post by notsomessyshell on May 3, 2009 0:30:34 GMT -5
Hi and welcome Boodles. Yes you do know how to get help. You went looking for it and you found US. We are all here to help each other. There is a wealth of knowledge and experience here. Just jump on in and we will all support each other.
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May 3, 2009 17:07:45 GMT -5
Post by messymimi on May 3, 2009 17:07:45 GMT -5
Welcome, Boodles !
It's good to have you here.
messymimi
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May 3, 2009 20:58:52 GMT -5
Post by def6 on May 3, 2009 20:58:52 GMT -5
Hey Boodles, Welcome ! We kinda just start here. Like right now if you could fill a bag full of trash that you may have sitting around and then you dispose of it. That one bag is your first step. Then you can say-Nothing stopped you from starting.Then you can tell us about what you have done and we will cheer you on. The trick is that you start! Then you just keep trying. Sometimes the motivation comes after you get some things done.
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boodles
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May 3, 2009 22:39:18 GMT -5
Post by boodles on May 3, 2009 22:39:18 GMT -5
I took pics of my bedroom and posted them in the picture folder. That was rather painful and I actually did fill one bag of trash up. Now to get it out of the apartment.
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May 3, 2009 23:05:06 GMT -5
Post by notsomessyshell on May 3, 2009 23:05:06 GMT -5
Yay for one bag of trash!!! Great start. Sometimes I have to talk to myself all the way out the door with a bag of trash. I can do this. I can do this. You can do this. You can do this! We are cheering you on.
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May 4, 2009 14:00:05 GMT -5
Post by howardsgirlfriend on May 4, 2009 14:00:05 GMT -5
Nice to meet you! Good job with the bag of trash! I'm a new member, too. Lots of wonderful people here.
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May 4, 2009 22:00:46 GMT -5
Post by def6 on May 4, 2009 22:00:46 GMT -5
CONGRATS BOODLES! You got started with your first bag out. I saw your pics too! You are well on your way. Tell the mountain to move and then it has to.
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May 5, 2009 21:17:13 GMT -5
Post by crazycatlady on May 5, 2009 21:17:13 GMT -5
Hello, Boodles, and welcome to the site. Great job on bagging up a full bag of stuff! W00t w00t!
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May 6, 2009 4:52:56 GMT -5
Post by skatters on May 6, 2009 4:52:56 GMT -5
Welcome Boodles! Glad to have you around!
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