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Post by CourageouslyLion SeeksSerenity on Mar 30, 2010 15:39:39 GMT -5
- Hug to LNJ -
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MiSC
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Post by MiSC on Mar 30, 2010 16:09:10 GMT -5
Chat is weird without you in it, actually. I hope you'll feel up to coming back soon. There are certainly no surprises awaiting you, so don't worry about that. It's sort of mind boggling how easily you assimilate after you've been gone for a while. Stick a toe in soon and see how the water is. You'll like it. Anyway will talk to you all later and take care and hoping when I come back that you have all made great strides in your progress. I think some major progress is being made today, and I'm sorry you're missing it. Come back in if you feel up to it. Get caught up in the positivity and feel better. There are days when I'd say, "Eh, it's kind of weird in chat today," but today would be a great one for you to come back to.
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catbiscuit
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Post by catbiscuit on Mar 31, 2010 8:04:46 GMT -5
To our beautiful Lost girl,
Maaaaaaate - we miss you, please come back! We don't want you to be Lost, we want you to be safe and happy and back at home with us in chat. I don't know exactly what happened but it is your right and privilege to be here. Please don't let a bad experience deny YOU the love and support that you deserve and need right now. Please don't deny US the wisdom, support and strength of your wonderful personality that WE need right now!
With lots of love, Catbiscuit xx
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hopehope
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Post by hopehope on Mar 31, 2010 22:29:48 GMT -5
hi lnj
you know I am your friend and I care about you.
don't go.
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Post by moonglow on Apr 1, 2010 4:55:37 GMT -5
Lost, I understand about the need to take a little time out, sometimes I have to "process" things on my own for a while. On the other hand, sometimes there is healing and support happening in the group that you may be isolating yourself from.
Why should you? Growth. An opportunity to learn, to influence others, to improve communication and negotiation skills. I know nothing of the details of the recent incident, but I believe that most incidents like this are rare (especially here at SooS) and blow over quickly. "Bad" experiences still give us a chance to learn a LOT. Forgiveness. Understanding ourselves. Learning to say we're sorry quickly. Learning to heal. Learning to tolerate imperfection in others. Learning our triggers and how best to minimize the damage that can occur. and on and on. And most of all, learning not to abandon something that WORKS for us because of one bad day. TOGETHER we make the community and we are ALL valuable in it.
Hugs to all who were distressed by this.
Paraphrasing from the song about the little ant: Get yourself up, brush yourself off, and start all over again.
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Post by mouseanne on Apr 4, 2010 10:57:16 GMT -5
to all... I was not online except once on my work-cation... my friends gave me access once when I asked... so i knew nothing of this. I missed you all very much. I am very sorry about this... and am very proud of you both. LostNJunk... I am sorry you felt like we would not notice if you stayed away from chat... My memory is kind of odd... i get the feeling.. something is not right, but am unable to pinpoint the dif... until someone comes back after an absence... then mentally go... oh! that was it... soNso was missing... (same thing with clothing & jewelry...) I would very much miss either of you, LostNjunk or MiSC if you were away from chat! again, for all!
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