OnTheMend is returning! Jul 9, 2020 6:17:54 GMT -5 razy, joyinvirginia, and 5 more like this Quote Select PostDeselect PostLink to PostBack to Top Post by OnTheMend on Jul 9, 2020 6:17:54 GMT -5 Hi everybody, new and old members!I used to be active here and found enormous help from this community. I got my life somewhat together, and stopped visiting regularly, as my focus and time and interests shifted elsewhere. I have popped in occasionally from time to time, as I know our members have big hearts and worry about old members who have vanished. 💗 I am happy to say I have kept my home relatively tidy and clean, and although I tend to be a piler and I most definitely need to clean before visitors and have low energy levels which make some bigger house cleaning tasks little difficult, I have been pretty pleased with where I am. Especially as I have been at the bottom before and so I have something to compare to. In other words, I am not perfect but oh so much better, and because of that, I know others can also become better!I have demanding couple of months ahead of me as I am preparing to a cross country move. I am behind with ALL the preparations and need all the help I can get. I remembered this forum, and thought that reactivating myself here would probably bring me some much needed focus and help me keep taking daily steps forward. I plan to make to do lists and outline my plans daily or almost daily, as I have so much to do and I am so overwhelmed that I tend to get anxious and stuck easily. These are big life events after all and I am on a tight schedule!I wish to get encouragement, kicking on the backside and forward driving, action oriented cheering and maybe even gentle pushing if I seem to get stuck or procrastinate. At this time and at this place on my journey I do not really need "coddling" or gentle understanding of my inaction or procrastination or even my health related problems (as I know sometimes people do need gentle understanding, and I know members here are gentle souls who sometimes become anxious with too much pushing), I wish you guys would help keep me accountable and reaching my goals, one step at the time. Thank you in advance!I hope to get myself familiar with the forums and threads again, but it can take a bit time. I dusted off my old blog, and I plan on using that as my Master Planner, as I like to keep my progress corralled in one central place.Looking forward to be part of the community again, getting to know new members and hearing how old members have been doing! And looking forward the new phase in my life!